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Rial v Rijo, 2010 WL 1643995 (S.D.N.Y.)

 

  In Rial v Rijo, 2010 WL 1643995 (S.D.N.Y.) Petitioner and respondent moved to Spain in May 2005, two months after the birth of their daughter, D.R., who was the subject of this dispute. After being subjected to an abusive incident with Mr. Rial in December of 2009, Ms. Rijo decided that it was in her and her child's best interests to leave him and she absconded with D.R. to her family's residence in New York. Mr. Rial then brought an action seeking the return of D.R. to Spain for custody proceedings. The district court noted that a court determining habitual residence asks the following questions. First, what was "the shared intent of those entitled to fix the child's residence (usually the parents) at the latest time their intent was shared? In
making this determination the court should look, as always in determining intent, at actions as well as declarations." Second, does "the evidence unequivocally point to the conclusion that the child has acclimatized to the new location and thus has acquired a new habitual residence, notwithstanding any conflict with the parents' latest shared intent? (Citing Gitter v. Gitter, 396 F.3d 124, 134 (2d Cir.2005).. Although intent is important, the facts of a child's residence may be undeniable: if at the relevant moment, a person has been living in one country ... for a sufficiently long period" "questions as to the purpose of the residence become irrelevant." Gitter, 396 F.3d at 12. The Court found that D.R.'s habitual residence was Spain. The couple moved her to Spain when she was just two months old, and although they may have intended to someday return to the US, they never did. The life they planned in America was a future that year by year receded before them: they bought a house, then enrolled D.R. in school, then Ms. Rijo herself enrolled in school, then she applied for Spanish Citizenship. And as time passed, D.R. came to be a Spanish-speaking five-year-old who had lived her entire life in Spain and knew nothing else. D.R. lived two months in the United States, then fifty-four in Spain.

Respondent objected to the petition because she contended that D.R. faced a grave risk of physical or psychological harm should she be returned to Spain. The district court pointed out that the risk of harm necessary to support a 13(b) defense is "grave, not merely serious." (Citing Friedrich v. Friedrich, 78 F.3d 1060, 1068 (6th Cir.1996). The Second Circuit has explained that the defense applies "in cases of serious abuse or neglect, or extraordinary emotional dependence." (Citing Blondin v. Dubois, 238 F.3d 153, 162 (2d Cir.2001). The evidence demonstrated that petitioner had been a verbally, and sometimes physically, abusive husband to Ms. Rijo. Ms. Rijo has testified that he frequently shouted at her, lost his temper, chastised her in front of others, and even said he would kill her. On a few occasions this abuse became somewhat physical: he would sometimes push her as he passed her in the house, or would "drag her" between rooms. D.R. was present for at least some of this abuse. While this level of abuse is less frequent and less severe than in other 13(b) cases, D.R.'s emotional dependence on Ms. Rijo was great and in the opinion of respondent's
expert, Dr. Fixman, D.R.'s return to Spain in the sole custody of her father "would really put the child at very serious, serious risk." The Court understood Dr. Fixman's opinion to be a professional opinion that persuaded the Court that the psychological trauma for D.R. would indeed be grave if she were separated from her mother. The Court explained that the 'grave risk' exception considers, inter alia, where and how a child is to be returned." The Second Circuit has recognized the availability of undertakings, or promises by the petitioning parent, "to alleviate specific dangers that might otherwise justify denial of the return petition."
Blondin v. Dubois, 238 F.3d 153, n. 8 (2d Cir.2000). Petitioner agreed to a number of undertakings that the Court believed would ensure D.R.'s safe and speedy return to Spain. Petitioner has agreed to rent an apartment in the center of town for six months, where both respondent and D.R. could feel secure upon their return to Spain. Petitioner agreed not to press charges against Ms. Rijo for the abduction, and to pursue the dismissal of any charges that may have been brought. In addition, petitioner agreed to pay child support in the amount of 500 euros/month for three months or until a Spanish court enters an order regarding support,
whichever occurs earliest. The parties were to make arrangements for D.R. to spend ample time with her father once in Spain, or, failing agreement, as the Spanish court may order. Based on these undertakings and conditions, the Court found that the risk of harm to D.R. was not grave and granted Mr. Rial's removal request.

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