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Nicolson v Pappalardo, --- F.3d ----, 2010 WL 1730393 (1st Cir.(Me.))

 

 

In Nicolson v Pappalardo, --- F.3d ----, 2010 WL 1730393 (1st Cir.(Me.)) Erica Pappalardo, an American citizen, and Lucas Nicolson, an Australian serving as a soldier in his country's armed forces, began a relationship in Australia when Pappalardo was traveling there. Pappalardo moved in with Nicolson and became pregnant. After she returned to the United States, Nicolson proposed marriage over the telephone, and she accepted and returned to Australia where the couple was married in August 2008.

They moved to Townsville, where Nicolson was posted for service in the Australian Defense Force. In November 2008, when Pappalardo was eight months pregnant, Nicolson told her he did not love her and was unsure whether marrying her had been a mistake. Pappalardo, upset, told Nicolson she wanted to move back to the United States as soon as she and the child were medically cleared to travel. But the couple continued to live together in Australia; Pappalardo said they did so, despite continuing marital problems, because she was financially dependent on Nicolson and could not travel with a baby until the baby was three months old. Their daughter, S.G.N., was born in December 2008. Until March 2009, all three resided together in Townsville. That month, Nicolson and Pappalardo arranged for a U.S. passport for S.G.N.--Nicolson said merely so S.G.N. could visit Pappalardo's family in the United States, but Pappalardo said Nicolson knew of and reluctantly acceded to her plans to move herself and S.G.N. permanently to the United States. In exchange for Nicolson's signing for the child's passport, Pappalardo agreed to give the marriage another chance. Nicolson said this trial was for three months, but Pappalardo denied making any duration promises. She also claimed that Nicolson did nothing in the following months to repair the marriage. The couple made preparations for Pappalardo and S.G.N.'s travel, packing or shipping a large quantity of belongings including S.G.N.'s medical records and transferring title to the couple's car from Pappalardo to Nicolson. On March 29, 2009, Nicolson drove Pappalardo and S.G.N. to the airport to fly to Sydney where Pappalardo's mother would assist in their travel to the United States. The next day, in Sydney, Pappalardo mentioned to Nicolson's mother and sister that she did not plan to return. Nicolson's mother informed Nicolson, who immediately flew to Sydney and angrily confronted Pappalardo at her hotel about her intentions; Pappalardo said she was unsure. He met with an attorney that day but told Pappalardo the next day that he would not pursue legal action because he wanted her to return with S.G.N. on her own accord. She said she was open to working on their relationship. On April 2, 2009, she and S.G.N. flew to the United States. On May 4, after meeting with a counselor, Pappalardo had an "epiphany" that their marriage would never work and notified Nicolson that she and S .G.N. would not return to Australia. On May 14, 2009, Pappalardo filed a complaint in Maine state court seeking an ex parte temporary order for protection from abuse ("PFA") against Nicolson, which was granted immediately and served on Nicolson on June 12. In the meantime, Nicolson filed an Application for Return with the Central Authority of Australia, pursuant to the Hague Convention. On September 4, 2009, Nicolson's Maine attorney attended the hearing on the final PFA order, but Nicolson did not attend and was denied permission to testify telephonically. The court was not told that Nicolson was pursuing Hague Convention relief because (Nicolson says) he was so advised by Australian authorities in case it might prompt Pappalardo to flee with S.G.N. Instead, his attorney and Pappalardo's lawyer agreed to entry of a PFA order dated September 4, 2009, which was central to the appeal.

On October 22, 2009, Nicolson filed in federal district court in Maine a petition  seeking return of the child to Australia. The district court concluded that S.G.N.'s habitual residence was Australia, that Nicolson had possessed and retained joint custody rights, and that he had not consented or acquiesced to Pappalardo's permanent retention of S.G.N. in the United States through the state court proceedings or otherwise. The court ordered S.G.N.'s return to Australia.

The First Circuit pointed out that the Hague Convention did not define "habitual residence," but the majority of federal circuits to consider it have adopted an approach that begins with the parents' shared intent or settled purpose regarding their child's residence.  In an unpublished opinion, this circuit had employed that approach. (Citing Zuker v. Andrews, No. 98-1622, 1999 U.S.App. LEXIS 6964, at *2-3 (1st Cir. Apr. 9, 1999).

On appeal Pappalardo argued only that S.G.N. never formed an initial habitual residence in Australia. Pappalardo's thesis was that she never shared Nicolson's intent for S.G.N. to reside habitually in Australia because the couple's marital relationship broke down and Pappalardo formed the intent to leave with S.G.N. before the child was born. The district court, however, found that while their marriage was "fraught with difficulties from the beginning" and "[t]here were numerous conversations about the viability of the marriage, both before and after S.G.N. was born," "[t]hey lived together as a married couple ... from the time of their marriage until March 29, 2009" and "shared responsibilities for S.G.N." until that time, when she was over three months old.

The Court stated that knowing nothing of private reservations, an objective observer would view S.G.N. as an Australian resident: her father was a citizen of the country and obliged to stay there during his term of service; her mother, being pregnant, had returned to Australia to marry him; they had married there and were living together there at the time of S.G.N.'s birth; and S.G.N. was born there and lived there for several months with both her parents. Judged by Nicolson's actions incident to Pappalardo's departure, Pappalardo's  intent to move permanently to the United States seemingly became manifest and definitive only at that time.  As against this, Pappalardo's position rested centrally on her earlier pre-birth declaration to Nicolson that she would move back to the United States and her testimony that her subjective intent at the time of the birth was not to remain in Australia. She relied on the  proposition that "[w]here the parents' relationship has broken down ....contemporaneous[ly] with the birth of the child, no habitual residence may ever come  into existence." Delvoye v. Lee, 329 F.3d 330, 333 (3d Cir.2003). The Court rejected her argument because the circumstances in that case were strikingly different. In Delvoye, the mother had traveled to a foreign country merely to save expenses by giving birth there instead of in her home country and with the intention from the outset of staying only a short time.

 In view of the foregoing the district court did not err in finding that Australia was SGN's habitual residence.

The Court pointed out that a child retained abroad over objection must be returned to his or her state of habitual residence unless the respondent can establish one of the provided-for defenses or exceptions. The district court was not bound to order the return of S.G.N. if Pappalardo established by a preponderance of the evidence that Nicolson "had consented to or subsequently acquiesced in [Pappalardo's] removal or retention" of S.G.N. Hague Convention art. 13(a); 42 U.S.C. 11,603(e)(2)(B).

The First Circuit pointed out that Pappalardo claimed that a variety of conduct and circumstances established that Nicolson both knew and consented to S.G.N.'s permanent departure from Australia. Pappalardo pointed to several facts already mentioned--Nicolson's participation in extensive preparations for her and S.G.N.'s trip and the transfer of the car's title--and to others: Nicolson's invitation to a male friend to move into the house after his family's departure, Nicolson's mother's e-mails expressing sadness at losing the child,  Nicolson's Internet posts on Facebook.com that described S.G.N.'s departure as "my loss of my family" and "his baby girl ha[ving] been ripped from him" and his change of status on that website from "married" to "single" (which he quickly changed back), and various other statements. It noted that Nicolson could also point to circumstances in his favor consistent with his testimony that he believed Pappalardo and S.G.N. would return to Australia and did not consent to more than a temporary stay for S.G.N. in the United States. These included his immediate arrangement for leave to fly to Sydney to confront Pappalardo and seek legal advice after his mother informed him of Pappalardo's intentions, Pappalardo's statements that she was open to continuing to work on their marriage, his efforts to persuade her to return thereafter and her reservation of a ticket to return. Nowhere was it claimed that Nicolson expressly agreed that the child could move permanently to the United States. His behavior was at least as consistent with that of a  man who wanted to continue the marriage and, therefore, to avoid forcing a final choice on his wife. The district court did not err in finding that Pappalardo has not carried her burden to show "consent" to a permanent relocation of the child.

The First Circuit noted that the outcome of the case, turned on "acquiescence" and the question whether Nicolson acquiesced to Pappalardo's retention of S.G.N. in the United States by agreeing, through his attorney, to the Maine state court's entry of the PFA order. The district court concluded that the PFA order could not bar Nicolson's petition because the Hague Convention takes precedence over state custody determinations. Under the Convention "[t]he sole fact that a decision relating to custody has been given in or is entitled to recognition in the requested State shall not be a ground for refusing to return a child under this Convention ." Art. 17. The Convention confers the privilege of deciding custody on the state of habitual residence. Arts. 1(b), 16, 19.

The First Circuit stated that the consent order in this case provided only for temporary custody but, if it were read as agreeing to let the Maine courts determine final custody (as Pappalardo claimed), it would think that this was an acquiescence or, alternatively, a waiver of Hague Convention rights. The district court cited federal cases, and others exist, that treat acquiescence as a pure subjective intent inquiry, and Nicolson had no subjective intent in the state court proceeding to have S.G.N. remain in the United States or to confer final authority to decide her custody on an American court. After all, he was privately seeking Hague Convention relief through the Australian Central Authority at the very time he participated in the state court proceeding, and he began his federal district court case shortly afterwards. By contrast, a clear and formal consent order by the non-U.S. parent agreeing to let a state court decide final custody would, both linguistically and for policy reasons, warrant treatment as acquiescence under the Hague Convention.

The Court held that it remained Pappalardo's burden to show that an unambiguous consent order did exist in this case. The consent order was not the unequivocal "acquiescence" or waiver that it might first appear; at best, the order was, on the point in question, a cryptic collection of printed and handwritten phrases that yielded no single answer as to who was to decide on permanent custody. A protection from abuse order is primarily concerned with dealing with an immediate threat of abuse and, where there are minor children, making arrangement for temporary custody. This order addressed both of those issues and, after providing for temporary custody, incorporated this handwritten language: "TO BE AMENDED BY COURT OF COMPETENT JURISDICTION. PA OBO [S.G.N.] TO BE DISMISSED UPON ISSUANCE OF FINAL FM ORDER." The abbreviations could be deciphered--although not with perfect assurance --but how to read the sentences in relation to a final custody determination was even less clear. Above all, the provision in which the language appeared was directed to temporary custody for what, as the order elsewhere made clear, was a limited period.

In sum, there was no "clear and unequivocal" expression of an agreement by Nicolson to have final custody determined in a Maine court,  nor "a convincing written renunciation of rights" to this effect. What Pappalardo obtained by consent was full temporary custody of the child at present with limited rights of contact by Nicolson. Nicolson might have forestalled even a temporary custody order by his Hague Convention proceeding because the Convention itself provides, After receiving notice of a wrongful ... retention of a child ... the judicial or administrative authorities of the Contracting State ... in which [the child] has been retained shall not decide on the merits of rights of custody until it has been determined that the child is not to be returned under this Convention or unless an application under this Convention is not lodged within a reasonable time following receipt of the notice. Art. 16 (emphasis added). But he chose for tactical reasons not to notify the state court of his Hague Convention petition before the state court order issued. This did not defeat his right under the Hague Convention to have permanent custody determined in Australia.

 

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