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Van De Sande v. Van De Sande, 431 F.3d 567 (7th Cir., 2005)

 

 

In Van De Sande v. Van De Sande, 431 F.3d 567 (7th Cir., 2005)  the Seventh Circuit noted that although Jennifer submitted affidavits setting forth the circumstances that she contended create such a risk, the district court granted summary judgment for Davy, primarily on the ground that there was no indication that the Belgian legal system cannot or will not protect the children. Jennifer presented six affidavits--two by her and one each by her father, her mother, her brother, and a friend. According to them Davy began beating Jennifer shortly after their marriage in 1999. The beatings were frequent and serious. For example, when she was seven months pregnant with their first child, Davy slammed Jennifer's head against a wall, choked her, and pushed her toward the top of a flight of stairs, threatening to topple her down them. The beatings, which typically consisted of choking Jennifer, throwing her against a wall, and kicking her in the shins, and occurred several times a week throughout the marriage whenever the two of them were together, continued when they moved from the United States to Belgium. Davy's mother joined in beating her daughter-in-law. She complained several times to the Belgian police, but they said they could do nothing unless she went to a doctor to verify her injuries; and she did not do that. Davy's beatings of Jennifer continued after the two children were born, and were often done in their presence, which caused them to cry. The older child (born in August 2000, so 4 years old when her mother refused to return to Belgium in October 2004) would tell her father to stop, but without success. Physical abuse of the daughter by her father began when she started wetting her bed. He would spank her, and once when Jennifer entered the girl's bedroom and told Davy to stop beating their daughter he grabbed Jennifer by the throat and shoved her out of the room. Once he struck the daughter a sharp blow to the side of her head. His mother (the daughter's grandmother) struck the daughter in the head at least twice. Davy also abused Jennifer verbally in the children's presence. The Court of Appeals stated that if the affidavits submitted by Jennifer were accurate Jennifer satisfied the statutory requirement that her evidence of risk of harm to the children be clear and convincing. The Court stated that to give a father custody of children who are at great risk of harm from him, on the ground that they will be protected by the police of the father's country, would be to act on an unrealistic premise. The rendering court must satisfy itself that the children will in fact, and not just in legal theory, be protected if returned to their abuser's custody. If handing over custody of a child to an abusive parent creates a grave risk of harm to the child, in the sense that the parent may with some nonnegligible probability injure the child, the child should not be handed over, however severely the law of the parent's country might punish such behavior. In such a case, any order divesting the abducting parent of custody would have to be conditioned on the child's being kept out of the custody of the abusing parent until the merits of the custody dispute between the parents could be resolved by the court in the abusive parent's country. At argument Davy's lawyer was willing to entertain the possibility that the district judge should have imposed such a condition on the order returning the children to Davy in Belgium. This concession alone required that it remand the case to the district court for further consideration, for in order to ameliorate any short-term harm to the child, courts in the appropriate circumstances have made return contingent upon 'undertakings' from the petitioning parent. Undertakings, as an alternative to refusing to return the child, will not always do the trick. Return plus conditions ("undertakings") can in some cases properly accommodate the interest in the child's welfare to the interests of the country of the child's habitual residence. But in cases of child abuse the balance may shift against return plus conditions. In a comment on "undertakings" the State Department has advised that "if the requested ... court is presented with unequivocal evidence that return would cause the child a 'grave risk' of physical or psychological harm, ... then it would seem less appropriate for the court to enter extensive undertakings than to deny the return request. The development of extensive undertakings in such a context could embroil the court in the merits of the underlying custody issues and would tend to dilute the force of the Article 13(b) exception." The court added that "undertakings are most effective when the goal is to preserve the status quo of the parties prior to the wrongful removal. This, of course, is not the goal in cases where there is evidence that the status quo was abusive2."

 

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