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Matter of Ago v Odu, 2009 WL 2169857 (M.D.Fla.))

 


(Cite as: 2009 WL 2169857 (M.D.Fla.))

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United States District Court, M.D. Florida,

Tampa Division.

In the Matter of AGO, Petitioner,

v.

Michael ODU, Respondent.

No. 8:09-cv-976-T-17TBM.

July 20, 2009.

ORDER

ELIZABETH A. KOVACHEVICH, District Judge.

*1 This cause is before the Court on:

Dkt. 32 Report and Recommendation

The Court referred Petitioner's Motion for a Temporary Restraining Order and Order
to Show Cause Why a Preliminary Injunction Should Not Be Entered Against
Respondent and Incorporated Memorandum of Law (Dkt.3) and Respondent's Motion to Dismiss for Lack of Subject Matter Jurisdiction (Dkt.13) to the assigned
Magistrate judge to conduct a hearing and for a Report and Recommendation.
Magistrate Judge McCoun conducted a hearing on June 29, 2009, and has issued a
Report and Recommendation in which is recommended that Petitioner's and
Respondent's motions should be denied

The Court has independently reviewed the pleadings. No objections to the Report
and Recommendation have been filed. After consideration, the Court adopts the
Report and Recommendation, and incorporates it herein by reference. Accordingly,

it is

ORDERED that the Report and Recommendation (Dkt.32) is adopted and incorporated
by
reference. Respondent's Motion to Dismiss for Lack of Subject Matter Jurisdiction
(Dkt.13) is denied. Petitioner's Motion for a Temporary Restraining Order and
Order to Show Cause Why a Preliminary Injunction Should Not Be Entered Against
Respondent and Incorporated Memorandum of Law (Dkt.3) is denied. The parties shall
have twenty (20) days from this date to notify the Court as to what other issues
remain to be addressed in this case and to determine when they will be prepared to
submit a Case Management Report for this case.

DONE and ORDERED.


REPORT AND RECOMMENDATION

THOMAS B. McCOUN III, United States Magistrate Judge.

THIS MATTER is before the court on referral for a Report and Recommendation on
Petitioner's Motion for a Temporary Restraining Order and Order to Show Cause Why
a Preliminary Injunction Should Not Be Entered Against Respondent and Incorporated
Memorandum of Law (Doc. 3) and Respondent's Motion to Dismiss for Lack of Subject
Matter Jurisdiction (Doc. 13).FN1

FN1. Additionally, the Petitioner filed a Motion in Limine to exclude the
testimony of the minor, AGO (Doc. 19) to which the Respondent filed his
memorandum in opposition (Doc. 20). For reasons set forth below, the motion
is denied.


I.

This action was instituted by the filing of a Petition for return of minor child
by the child's mother, Giovanna Gianesini ("Petitioner" or "mother"), pursuant to
the Convention on the Civil Aspects of Child Abduction ("Hague Convention"),
T.I.A.S. No. 11,670, and the International Child Abduction Remedies Act ("ICARA"),
42 U.S.C. s 11601 et seq. (Doc. 1). Petitioner asserts that she and Respondent,
Michael Odu ("Respondent" or "father"), are the parents of the minor child, AGO
("AGO" or "child") who was born September 21, 1994, in Daytona Beach, Florida.FN2
Petitioner, an Italian citizen, alleges that since 2001, AGO's habitual residence
has been with her in Vicenza, Italy. She alleges that Respondent refused to allow
AGO to fly home to Italy on August 30, 2008, and that he has been wrongfully
retained by Respondent since that date.

FN2. At the hearing, the child was referred to as "Andre."

In response, the father, an American citizen, residing in the Middle District of
Florida, filed a motion challenging the court's subject matter jurisdiction. (Doc.



13).FN3 Additionally, he filed an Answer and Affirmative Defenses wherein he
raises four defenses. (Doc. 18). He asserts that AGO was not wrongfully retained
because the United States is his habitual residence and moreover, the mother
consented to his remaining in this country. Alternatively, Respondent argues that
AGO has reached an age of maturity and desires to remain in the United States with
his father. Lastly, he argues that the child is settled and acclimated in the
United States, and the mother has unduly delayed in filing her Petition.

FN3. By this motion to dismiss, Respondent essentially argues that because
the child's habitual residence is in the United States, the court is without
jurisdiction. However, the motion (Doc. 13) is appropriately denied as the
court has jurisdiction over the alleged wrongful removal/retention claim
pursuant to 42 U.S.C. s 11603 ("The courts of the States and the United
States district courts shall have concurrent original jurisdiction of
actions arising under the Convention.").

*2 An evidentiary hearing was conducted June 29, 2009. The parties testified as
did the child.FN4 Following the hearing, the parties submitted proposed findings
and conclusions. See (Docs.30-31). In a nutshell, Petitioner claims that Italy is
the habitual residence of AGO because he has attended school at least 70% of the
time in Italy excluding the 2008-2009 school year when he was in school in Florida
after being wrongfully retained. In Italy are his brother and sister ("the twins")
with whom he is close; friends, cousins, and grandparents; and an active life
including sports activities such as basketball. After completing middle school
there, he was scheduled to start high school in Italy before he was wrongfully
retained. While the child regularly visited Respondent in Florida, his home is in
Italy. By her contention, the child was wrongfully detained by the father in
Florida at the end of his summer visit in August 2008.

FN4. Petitioner submitted a composite exhibit containing copies of matters
purportedly submitted to authorities under the Convention and an English
translation of a September 29, 2008 decree from an Italian court granting
custody to Petitioner. There appears no question that the matters submitted
to the authorities in Italy and forwarded to the U.S. under the Convention
are admissible under the Convention. The English translation of the
September 2008 decree was not part of those documents. It was filed with the
court June 26, 2009, but was subsequently stricken for Petitioner's failure
to comply with the redaction requirements of Fed.R.Civ.P. 5.2(a). It is
resubmitted as part of Petitioner's Exhibit 4A. No issue has been raised as
to the authenticity or accuracy of the translation. Notably, if the Italian
court(s) entered additional orders on this matter thereafter, they have not
been submitted for this court's consideration.

By her testimony, she and the Respondent lived together as husband and wife in the
United States from 1993 to 2000 but were never lawfully married. Their child, AGO,
was born in Daytona Beach, Florida, in 1994. While here, she earned a bachelors
and a masters degree from the University of Central Florida. In 2000, she moved
back to Italy with AGO, who was six years old at the time, because her student
visa had expired. She is studying for her Ph.D. and is certified as a counselor in
Italy. In May 2001, she gave birth in Italy to AGO's siblings ("the twins"). They
reside in Schio, a town near Vincenza, Italy. She testified that between 2001 and
2006, she and the Respondent regularly agreed to a rotating custody arrangement
without problems. She claims the agreed plan was for the children to spend three
months during the summer with the Respondent in the United States and nine months
with her in Italy. She testified that when AGO was older they followed this plan
where he would spend the summer with the father. However, when questioned on cross
examination, she could not be specific as to the actual dates and times that AGO
lived with her in Italy versus living with the Respondent in Florida, and upon
further questioning acknowledged that AGO may have in some years lived up to, but
no more than, a total of six months out of the year in the United States.

From September 2007 through July 13, 2008, AGO lived continuously with his family
in Italy and attended the 2007-2008 school year (his last year of middle school)
in Italy. She agreed to send AGO to visit his father for summer vacation in July
2008, with the intention that he would start high school in Italy in the fall of
2008. She testified that AGO had chosen and enrolled, prior to leaving for
Florida, in an Italian scientific high school for the 2008-2009 school year. She
and Respondent agreed that when he finished the 2007-2008 school year, he would
again travel to visit the Respondent and they agreed upon a return date in August
2008. An e-mail she received from the father indicated AGO would travel to Florida
on July 13, 2008, and return to Italy August 29, 2008.FN5 On each prior occasion
that the children visited with the father, the children had been returned to her.
Thus, she testified that she had no reason to believe that AGO would not be
returned per the arrangements set forth in the e-mail from Respondent.

FN5. The June 11, 2008 e-mail indicated that the Respondent had arranged for
airline tickets for the children leaving Venice, Italy on July 13, 2008 with
a return flight from Tampa, Florida on August 29, 2008. An e-mail a week
later suggests that they were still addressing travel dates for the
"vacation" and that the Respondent planned to fly to Italy so he could
accompany the children back to Tampa. Pet'r Exh. 4A.

*3 She received an August 7, 2008, e-mail from Respondent which indicated that he
intended to keep the children in Florida and had enrolled them in school.
Ostensibly this was so he could arrange for the twins to obtain citizenship.FN6
This decision was unilaterally made by the Respondent. Petitioner called
Respondent to tell him the children should be returned to her. School in Florida
started August 18, 2008. AGO was enrolled in the last year of middle school, and
the twins were enrolled in first grade, one year behind where they would have been
enrolled in Italy. She objected to the decision to enroll them in school in
Florida. She states that she contacted the school to find out how her children
could be enrolled without her permission. She also contacted the "Central
Authority," an attorney, and pursued action under the Hague Convention. She claims
that she contacted the U.S. State Department to ask for its assistance and that it
sent Respondent a letter, but he still refused to return the children.

FN6. The e-mail, dated August 7, 2008 is also part of Petitioner's Exh. 4A.

Petitioner came to Florida in September 2008. She claims her purpose for coming
was to retrieve the children and bring them back to Italy although she
acknowledged that she represented to the Respondent only that her purpose for her
visit was just to see the children. While in Florida, she stayed at Respondent's
home and accompanied the twins to their school. During her visit, she attempted to
obtain the voluntary return of the children, and she and the Respondent argued
about this. The Respondent agreed to let her bring the twins back to Italy, but
refused as to AGO. After approximately one week, she returned to Italy with the
twins.

She claims she and AGO discussed his return during this visit and tried to get him
to return home. Prior to this visit, he had evidenced his desire to return home in
text messages to her and his friends indicating he missed them. She claims that
although she tried multiple times to get Respondent to agree to return the minor
child, she never specifically asked AGO to come back to Italy with her.

Petitioner claims she initiated custody proceedings in Italy before Respondent
picked up the kids to travel that summer. She testified that she and the
Respondent had previously discussed custody arrangements, and she had wanted him
to sign a joint custody agreement for filing in the United States, but Respondent
would not agree. She wanted to regulate all the traveling back and forth and she
wanted child support. As noted above, she entered into evidence an English
translation of a September 26, 2008, ex parte decree from the Juvenile Court in
Venice-Mestre, Italy, which purports to grant her sole custody of AGO and the
twins, financial support, with restricted rights of visitation in Italy for the
father. (Pet'r Exh. 4A). She testified that a copy of this was sent to Respondent,
but he has not abided by it.

In February 2009, Petitioner again traveled to Florida to retrieve AGO. Before the
trip, she claims that she contacted the authorities in Italy and the United
States, and she was advised that she could not take AGO back to Italy without the
father's consent or it could be considered a re-abduction. She had only limited
access to the child on this visit, but at some point she gave him his U.S.
Passport and a plane ticket for his return with her to Italy. She denies asking
the child specifically to do so, but she did attempt to get the Respondent to
agree to this and he refused. AGO did not return with her.

*4 She adamantly denies ever consenting to allow the child to stay here after
August 29, 2008.

By Petitioner's account, AGO is intelligent, performs well in school, and has
received good grades. He has family and friends in Italy. She described him as of
average maturity for a 14-year old.FN7 She does not believe that AGO should have
to choose where to stay.

FN7. Petitioner's counsel conceded that the mother was not contesting AGO's
level of maturity as it relates to his testifying, but rather argues that
because he has been living consistently with the father since July 13, 2008,
and has had very limited contact with the mother since September 2008, that
AGO has been subjected to influence or manipulation by Respondent and as
such, any testimony by AGO is tainted and should not be accepted.

On cross, Petitioner had difficulty remembering dates, but she conceded that the
child rotated between living in Italy and the U.S. She admitted a meeting in 2007
between Respondent and her brother, Marco, an attorney in Italy. She denied that
it was there decided that the child would be allowed to choose where he would
attend high school. Her visit to Florida in September 2008 was prompted by her
concern for the children. She went to school with the twins but not AGO. She
insisted that while she did not ask AGO to return with her, she did ask the
Respondent repeatedly. She claims she was warned by Central Authorities not to use
force to recover AGO. She admitted a text message to AGO in November 2008 which
stated "... You are done with me, you never treated me right and not even your
brothers. You make your choice and we make ours...." (Resp.Exh. 1). However, she
denied sending other similar text messages to her son. When she returned in
February 2009, she admitted she spent some time alone with AGO, but she reiterated
that she did not ask him to return with her; she only asked Respondent.

The Respondent introduced evidence of school records from Hillsborough County for
2002 through 2009. (Resp.Exh. 2). These records are not disputed and reflect that
AGO attended elementary school in Hillsborough County from August 7, 2002 through
November 23, 2004; middle school in August through November 2005 and February
through May 2007; and high school from August 2008 through May 2009. Id. In
response to the court's question, Petitioner acknowledged that they want AGO to be
bi-lingual, which is why he was sent to school here. The child is a good student,
he gets excellent grades, he suffers no mental deficiencies. He is of average
maturity. The meeting with her brother was about money-child support.

Mr. Odu testified that he has lived in Brandon, Florida since August 2002. He and
Petitioner lived together as a couple from 1993 to 2002. In 2001, Petitioner moved
to Italy for the birth of the twins and AGO stayed with Respondent in Florida.
Respondent traveled to Italy for the birth of the twins in May 2001. Respondent
and AGO returned to the U.S. so he could start second grade. In October 2001, he
returned to Italy until he finished second grade in May 2002. From May to December
2002, AGO lived with Respondent in Florida. By his account, Respondent would
travel each May to Italy for the twins' birthday, stay through Memorial weekend,
and return with all the children to Florida. While the twins would typically stay
only for the summer, AGO would spend up to half of the school year with him in
Florida. Respondent testified that 2007 was different because in February 2007, he
received a message from Petitioner telling him to come get AGO because she was
done with him. That year, AGO spent February through July in Florida. AGO got a
dog and decided he did not want to go back to Italy. When Respondent traveled to
Italy in May 2007 for the twins' birthday, AGO did not want to go and instead
stayed in Florida with Respondent's brother. In the summer of 2007, Petitioner and
Respondent vacationed together with their three children in the U.S. and then to
Greece. Respondent testified that in August of that year, Petitioner would not let
AGO return to the U.S. She wanted him to complete middle school in Italy. They
argued over where AGO should go to school during 2007-2008. The Petitioner wanted
AGO to finish his middle school year in Italy. Respondent testified that the child
had struggled each year transitioning back into school in Italy under the existing
arrangement, and he wanted AGO to go to school in Florida where he did well.
Petitioner and Respondent agreed to meet with a third person to discuss the
situation, and Petitioner's brother, an Italian lawyer, agreed to act as mediator.
According to Respondent, it was agreed that AGO would attend the 2007-2008 school
year in Italy, following which the child could then decide where he wanted to
attend high school. Additionally, an agreement was reached regarding child support
whereby Respondent would pay one thousand Euro per month to Petitioner.
Respondent
acknowledged that in the year immediately preceding AGO's trip to Florida in July
2008, AGO lived continuously in Italy, but that was as a result of the agreement
reached at the meeting with Petitioner's brother. He testified that the agreement
was communicated to AGO.

*5 Shortly after coming to Florida in July 2008, AGO made the decision to stay in
Florida and called his mother and grandmother to communicate that. While
Respondent would characterize AGO's habitual residence from 2002 to 2006 as
"rotating," he urges that since 2007, the United States is AGO's habitual
residence. Specifically, since February 2007, AGO considered Florida his home.
After coming in the summer 2008, AGO belonged to the Brandon YMCA where he
attends
leadership meetings and plays basketball. AGO attends church and is involved in
community activities, such as the Leukemia Walk, with his father. He is a member
of the honor society and the math club. AGO is settled in the United States and
has friendships that were in place before the summer of 2008. AGO now has two dogs
in Florida and wants to become a veterinarian when he gets older.

Respondent testified that AGO had difficulty socially in Italy, was teased, and
had problems adjusting to school. He claims that the eleven months AGO spent in
Italy during the 2007-2008 school year were terrible; he was sick for several
months and could not wait to return to Florida. When AGO returned to Florida in
the summer of 2008, he was expecting to stay as he brought more of his personal
belongings than he had in the past. He had a 3.9 grade point average for his
freshman year (2008-2009) which he attended in Florida.

Respondent described AGO as suffering from a congenital condition (imperforated
anus) which causes him some problems with his clothing, but he is otherwise fine
socially. In Italy, he was teased about his condition. He is smart, analytical,
logical, reasonable, and he has feelings. He is on the same maturity level as his
peers. He has friends in the community.

Respondent testified that when Petitioner came to Florida in September 2008, she
came to help the children transition to school. Flying her to Florida from Italy
was a surprise birthday present for AGO. She spoke several times with AGO during
her trip. Respondent claims he only wants to do what AGO wants in this matter. If
AGO had indicated he wished to return to Italy, Respondent would not have
prevented this. AGO could have returned to Italy with her if he had wanted, but he
chose to remain in Florida. By his account, Petitioner sought to go to a Ph.D.
program here, but that did not work out.

When the mother returned to Florida in February 2009, she said that she wanted AGO
to go back with her to Italy. He arranged to have AGO and his mother meet as often
as he could. After one meeting, AGO was provided an airplane ticket to Italy and
his U.S. passport.

He dates AGO's habitual residence in the U.S. to February 2007, when his mother
said to come pick him up despite his returning to Italy for the 2007-2008 school
year.

On cross-examination, he conceded that the agreement for AGO to be able to choose
which school he would attend for high school was never reduced to writing. He also
conceded that during the 2007-2008 school year, AGO did not visit in the U.S. He
agreed that AGO had friends and family in Italy and he played sports in Italy, but
he urges that it is not the same as in the U.S. He denies that AGO did as well in
school in Italy. Respondent believes AGO transitioned better in school when he
came to the U.S. Respondent was made aware of the custody proceedings in Italy,
and he participated in writing but not in person. After AGO started to complain
about his mother's text messages to him, Respondent has had his son speak English
with his mother. He insists that he and Petitioner agreed that AGO would complete
middle school in Italy and then AGO could choose where he would attend high
school.

*6 As noted above, Petitioner also filed a motion in limine to prohibit testimony
from the minor child. (Doc. 29). At the hearing, the court conducted an informal
hearing in Chambers with AGO, counsel for both parties, and a court reporter.
Based on the discussion with the minor child, the court was satisfied that AGO was
capable of understanding the oath and evidenced the intellect and maturity to
warrant consideration of his views. Petitioner argued only that the child has been
subjected to undue influence by the father for nearly a year, and thus his
testimony is tainted. In denying the motion, the court indicated it was necessary
to consider the whole of his testimony before deciding the weight to be given to
the same. Accordingly, the motion in limine was denied, and AGO was permitted to
testify.


AGO testified that he has lived in Brandon, Florida for the past four years. He
estimated that he spent approximately half of the year in Florida and half of the
year in Italy during middle school. In 2007, he was in Florida more than half of
the year, but was in Italy for the 2007-2008 school year. He testified that he was
not present during the meeting in 2007, between his parents and his Uncle Marco,
but that he spoke to them about it and based on the communications from his uncle,
he was under the impression that he would be given a choice where he would attend
high school. He testified that he has not heard his mother state that he would
have that choice, but he believed she would let him choose. According to AGO, he
made up his mind to stay in the U.S. even before he came here in July 2008. He did
not tell his mother this, and in fact he told her he would return in order to get
her to agree to let him come to the U.S. His father's neighborhood is nice; he has
friends there; and there are places to play.

Since the Fall of 2008, AGO exchanged e-mails and text messages with his mother.
The mother has accused him of betraying her and the twins' trust. He stopped
calling her on the telephone approximately a month ago because she was not
listening to him. He testified that she has tried several times to convince him to
come to Italy. He has told her that he wants to stay here. He described her visit
in September 2008 as "tense." She did not understand why he wanted to stay here.
He did not go back with the twins because he wanted to stay here. The visit in
February 2009 was very "uncomfortable." She did not ask him to return, but they
spoke about why he wanted to stay, the pros and cons of the U.S. and Italy. He
concluded by telling her he wanted to stay in the U.S. His father has never asked
him to stay, nor has his father told him he did not want AGO to return to Italy.

AGO testified that he is more comfortable here in the United States; has more
space; and his mom does not understand him that well. He chose his words carefully
in testifying that he is not choosing a parent, but rather he chooses to live in
the United States over Italy.

*7 On cross-examination, he said he never heard his mother say he would have a
choice about where he would go to high school. This is what he heard his uncle
say. When asked about the eleven months he was in Italy preceding the summer of
2008, he stated he attended school there and played basketball part of the time.
He failed a class. He has cousins and family in Italy and testified that he misses
them. He lived in the same house there for several years. For schooling purposes,
he advanced year to year in Italy. It was not until September 2008, that AGO sent
his mother a text message telling her that he wanted to stay in the United States.
He had previously made the decision. At no time did he want to pick a parent, but
he made the decision to stay in the U.S. He is aware of the custody decree in
Italy. He has not gone home because he did not think he could return to the U.S.
He misses the twins and his friends in Italy. Before coming in July 2008, he had
signed up for school in Italy. Based on a series of text messages from his mother,
AGO believed that she eventually agreed with him staying in the U.S., and that
this was over.



II.


A.


The Hague Convention on the Civil Aspects of International Child Abduction,
T.I.A.S. No. 11,670,FN8 to which Italy and the United States are signatories, was
adopted in 1980 "to protect children internationally from the harmful effects of
their wrongful removal or retention and to establish procedures to ensure their
prompt return to the State of their habitual residence." The rationale underlying
the Convention is that a child's country of habitual residence is the place where
decisions relating to custody and access are best decided. Bocquet v. Ouzid, 225
F.Supp.2d 1337, 1340 (S.D.Fla.2002). The United States implemented the Convention
through the International Child Abduction Remedies Act, 42 U.S.C. ss 11601 et seq.
, which entitles a person whose child has been wrongfully removed to, or
wrongfully retained in, the United States to petition a federal court to order the
child returned.FN9 42 U.S.C. s 11603(b). Courts considering an ICARA petition have
jurisdiction to decide the merits only of the wrongful removal or retention claim,
not of any underlying custody dispute. Lops v. Lops, 140 F.3d 927, 936 (11th
Cir.1998); see also Friedrich v. Friedrich, 78 F.3d 1060, 1063 (6th Cir.1996).

FN8. The Convention is reprinted in 51 Fed.Reg. 10,494 (Mar. 26, 1986).

FN9. The United States ratified the Convention in November 1986 and, in
November 1988, President Reagan issued a Proclamation that the Convention
had entered into force for the United States on July 1, 1988, and that it
must be observed and fulfilled in good faith by the United States and its
citizens thereafter. ICARA was enacted during the same year to implement the
Convention.

The Petitioner bears the initial burden of proving by a preponderance of the
evidence "that the child has been wrongfully removed or retained within the
meaning of the Convention." 42 U.S.C. s 11603(e)(1)(A); see also Ruiz v. Tenorio,
392 F.3d 1247, 1251 (11th Cir.2004). To establish a case of wrongful removal or
retention, the Petitioner must establish by the preponderance of the evidence
that: (1) AGO was a "habitual resident" of Italy immediately before the date
retained by the Respondent; (2) the retention was in breach of the Petitioner's
custody rights under the law of Italy; (3) Petitioner had been actually exercising
or would have been exercising custody rights concerning AGO at the time of AGO's
retention; and (4) the child has not attained the age of 16. See Convention, art.
3, T.I.A.S. No. 11,670 at 2; Ruiz, 392 F.3d at 1251; Lops, 140 F.3d at 936
(citing 42 U.S.C. s 11603). If this burden is met, the child must be promptly
returned unless Respondent can establish that one of the Convention's enumerated
defenses applies. Lops, 140 F.3d at 945.



B.

*8 The interpretation of "habitual residence" is important to the Convention
because it will dictate the arbiter of the custody dispute. However, neither the
Convention nor ICARA actually define the term "habitual residence" and the courts
have had some difficulty in doing so as well. Ruiz, 392 F.3d at 1252. Quoting the
High Court of Justice in the United Kingdom, the Ruiz court stated "the notion [of
habitual residence is] free from technical rules, .... The facts and circumstances
of each case should continue to be assessed without resort to presumptions ....
All that is necessary is that the purpose of living where one does has a
sufficient degree of continuity to be properly described as settled." Id. Thus, in
concept, a child's habitual residence depends on the intentions of the parties and
their residence at a particular locale for a sufficient period of time to reveal a
settled intent. In this circuit, the controlling intent is that of the parents
rather than the child. Ruiz, at 1253.

Ruiz sets forth the analytical framework for determining a new habitual residence.
"The first step toward acquiring a new habitual residence is forming a settled
intention to abandon the one left behind." Ruiz, 392 F.3d at 1252 (citing Mozes
v. Mozes, 239 F.3d 1067, 1075 (9th Cir.2001)). "[W]hen an alleged abandonment of a
clearly established habitual residence for a new home is at issue, the court must
determine not only whether the child was settled in his new home, but whether the
prior habitual residence was abandoned, and the new home has supplanted the old
'as the locus of the [child's] family and social development.' " Small v. Clark,
No. 5:06-CV-125-OC10GRJ, 2006 WL 2024955, at *4 (M.D.Fla. July 17, 2006)
(unpublished opinion) (quoting Mozes, 239 F.3d at 1084). "It is not necessary to
have this settled intention at the time of departure, as it could develop during
the course of a stay originally intended to be temporary." Ruiz, 392 F.3d at 1252
(citing Mozes, at 1075). The determination of this "subjective" settled intent is
important "because there can be no bright line rule with respect to the length of
an absence." Id. at 1253. " 'All that is necessary is that the purpose of living
where one does has a sufficient degree of continuity to be properly described as
settled.' " Id. at 1252. However, settled intentions alone do not transform the
habitual residence. "In addition there must be an actual change in geography and
the passage of a sufficient length of time for the child to have become
acclimatized." Ruiz, at 1253 (citing Mozes, 239 F.3d at 1078).FN10 In this
circuit, it is the intentions of the parents (rather than the child) which affect
the length of time necessary for a child to become habitually resident. Ruiz at
1254 (citing Mozes, at 1079-80). When there is no shared settled intent on the
part of the parents to abandon the child's prior habitual residence, "a court
should find a change in habitual residence if the objective facts point
unequivocally to a new habitual residence, or if the court could 'say with
confidence that the child's relative attachments to the two countries have changed
to the point where requiring a return to the original forum would now be
tantamount to taking the child out of the family and social environment in which
its life has developed.' " Id. (citing Mozes, at 1081).

FN10. Courts look to the following factors in determining whether a child is
settled in a new environment: "(1) the age of the child; (2) the stability
of the child's new residence; (3) whether the child attends school or
daycare consistently; (4) whether the child attends church regularly; (5)
the stability of the [parent's] employment; and (6) whether the child has
friends and relatives in the new area." Lopez v. Alcala, 547 F.Supp.2d
1255, 1259 (M.D.Fla.2008).


C.

*9 The determination by the court that a child was wrongfully retained "does not
automatically mean that the child must be returned to his or her habitual
residence. Rather, once the petitioner has proven his or her case, "the burden
shifts to the respondent to prove an affirmative defense against the return of the
child to the country of habitual residence." Yang, 499 at 271. If a respondent
proves one of the enumerated exceptions as an affirmative defense, a district
court has the discretion to refuse to order the child be returned to his habitual
residence. Id. at 278. Of the six exceptions under the Convention, two have
application here:

- the person having care of the child had consented to or subsequently
acquiesced in the removal or retention of the child; and

- the child objects to being returned and has attained an age and degree of
maturity at which it is appropriate to take account of its views.

Hague Convention, art. 13, 42 U.S.C. s 11603(e)(2).FN11 However, in order to
effect the purpose and intent of the Convention, courts shall construe and apply
the exceptions narrowly. See Yang, 499 F.3d at 278.

FN11. Respondent also affirmatively states that "a sufficient amount of time
has passed and AGO has acclimated to the United States" ... and "AGO's
mother delayed filing under the Hague Convention unduly." (Doc. 18 at 3).
There is an exception in the Hague Convention where the child is
well-settled in the new environment but it requires a showing of a delay in
filing judicial proceedings for more than one year from the wrongful removal
or retention. See Hague Convention, art. 12. Here, judicial proceedings were
instituted within one year of the wrongful removal or retention, thus the
argument supports only the claim that the child's habitual residence was the
U.S. at the time of the wrongful retention.


III.

As set forth above, to establish a case of wrongful removal or retention, the
Petitioner must establish by the preponderance of the evidence that: (1) AGO was a
"habitual resident" of Italy immediately before the date retained by the
Respondent; (2) the retention was in breach of the Petitioner's custody rights
under the law of Italy; (3) Petitioner had been actually exercising or would have
been exercising custody rights concerning AGO at the time of AGO's retention; and
(4) the child has not attained the age of 16.

Although custody of the child has rotated between the mother in Italy and the
father in the U.S. for much of the child's life, I am satisfied from a
preponderance of the evidence, that the parties had the shared settled intention
that the child's habitual residence be with his mother in Italy, at least through
his completion of middle school in May 2008. Italy is where he did most of his
schooling and while he undoubtedly had friends and relatives and other ties in
both locales and his custody was rotated with some regularity over the years, the
parties' descriptions of all this leave me believing that Italy is properly
considered his habitual residence. This conclusion is not altered by the mother's
cry for relief in February 2007, resulting in the father bringing the child here
for the balance of that school year. While Respondent proposes that the child's
habitual residence was in the U.S. at least since that date, the objective
evidence is that he was returned to Italy thereafter for completion of middle
school during the 2007-2008 school year. FN12 Before leaving for the U.S. in July
2008, the child was enrolled in a scientific high school in Italy for the
2008-2009 school year. While claiming a different subjective intent, the child
promised his mother he would return to Italy at the end of the summer.

FN12. Respondent urges that the family traveled together during the summer
in 2007 and while the child did return to school in Italy for the 2007-2008
school year, this was part of an agreement with Petitioner that after middle
school, the child would have the choice of where to attend high school. This
purported agreement is entirely disputed by Petitioner but even if there was
such agreement, the habitual residence of the child at that time was Italy.

*10 Respondent may properly claim that the child maintained continuous and close
ties with him in Florida including living here for months at a time while
attending school in Hillsborough County schools. While here, it appears that he
acclimated easily and well. Nonetheless, the greater concentration of his life and
activities was in Italy. It is apparent that the relationship between Petitioner
and the child was strained to the breaking point in February 2007, but by the end
of that summer, the child was again at his home in Italy. There can be only one
habitual residence in this context and despite Respondent's claims to the
contrary, I find a shared intent by the parties that the child's primary and
habitual residence be with his mother in Italy, at least through his completion of
middle school in about May 2008.

After completion of middle school, as was fairly the routine, the parties made
arrangements for the child and the twins to spend the summer of 2008 with
Respondent. Correspondence referencing the travel arrangements suggest that the
child's stay in the U.S. was temporary, intended to end August 29, 2008. It is
apparent that the child again quickly became acclimated to his surroundings,
taking up activities in his Brandon, Florida neighborhood. By the child's account,
he already knew he did not want to return to Italy. Respondent claims that such
reflects that the child was fully acclimatized to this new life by the end of the
summer and thus an habitual resident, if not so earlier in time. Both the
Respondent and the child testified that by the end of August 2008, the child was
fully settled on residing in Brandon and there attending high school. He urges
that even if his habitual residence was Italy theretofore, by the end of August
his new habitual residence was in the U.S.

As set forth above, the first step in acquiring a new habitual residence is
forming a settled intention to abandon the one left behind. Such an intention can
be formed even during a stay originally intended to be temporary. However, in this
circuit, the person(s) whose intent is relevant in this inquiry " 'is that of the
person or persons entitled to fix the place of the child's residence.' " Ruiz,
392 F.3d at 1253 (citing Mozes at 1076) (quoting from E.M. Clive, The Concept of
Habitual Residence, 1997 Jurid. Rev. 137, 144). FN13 Here, it is the parents who
shared the child's custody. Clearly, Petitioner never intended that the child
abandon his habitual residence in Italy for a new one in the U.S. While the child
has convinced me that he developed a settled intent to remain in the U.S. at the
end of the summer, his view is not controlling. In the given circumstances, the
Respondent could not unilaterally act to change the habitual residence. Thus, I
decline in the first instance to conclude that the habitual residence in Italy was
abandoned by those entitled to fix the child's residence. While, there is
demonstrated evidence that the child did well once he settled in to the home in
Brandon in July, given that such positive contacts alone are not sufficient in
this circuit to prove acclimatization and the court must look again to the
parents' intentions in measuring the time necessary for a child to become
habitually resident, I conclude there is insufficient showing that the child had
become so acclimatized by the end of August 2008 that he was then habitually
resident in the U .S. As the court in Ruiz stated, " '[d]espite the superficial
appeal of focusing primarily on the child's contacts in the new country, ..., we
conclude that, in the absence of settled parental intent, courts should be slow to
infer from such contacts that an earlier habitual residence has been abandoned.' "
Ruiz, at 1253-54 (quoting Mozes, at 1079). As discussed below, while I conclude
that the child sincerely wished to remain in the U.S. at least by August 2008,
here I find the objective facts do not point unequivocally to a new habitual
residence by the end of August 2008.

FN13. In the foot note to this citation, the Ruiz court found unpersuasive a
different approach adopted in the Sixth Circuit which rejected the use of
parental intent as the standard and looked to the child's intent. Ruiz, 392
F.3d at 1253 n. 3.


*11 As for the remaining elements, it is undisputed that Respondent determined to
keep all the children with him at the end of August 2008 without any prior
discussions with the Petitioner. While there was no custody order in place at that
time, such retention was nonetheless improper. The parties had evidenced a clear
intent that custody of the child was joint, shifting back and forth by agreement
or necessity. Here, the objective evidence indicates the parties' agreement was
that custody would return to the mother at the end of August. In these
circumstances, Petitioner could properly complain under the Convention when the
children were not returned despite the lack of a formal custody order. See Van
Driessche v. Ohio-Esezeoboh, 466 F.Supp.2d 828, 844-45 (S.D.Tex.2006).FN14 While
I
conclude that there had been discussions in the summer of 2007 about letting AGO
choose which high school he would attend, such discussions were not reduced to a
firm agreement such that Respondent can claim that the custody arrangement had
been altered. Here, the objective evidence reveals that the Petitioner expected
the child to return in August 2008, to begin school and she was prepared to
exercise her custody rights over the child at that time. She was prevented from
doing so when the Respondent failed to return the child as agreed. Given the age
of the child at that time, Petitioner has established each of the elements on her
claim of wrongful retention.

FN14. Children who are wrongfully removed or retained prior to the entry of
a custody order are protected under the Convention. See 51 Fed.Reg. s
10,505. Nor must parents in such circumstances first obtain a custody order
in the State of the child's habitual residence as a prerequisite to invoking
the Convention's return provisions. Id. at s 10,506. It appears that under
Italian law, the Petitioner, in these circumstances, has primary authority
over the child residing with her. See Pet'r Exh. 4A. Under U.S. law, both
parents generally have equal custody rights to their children prior to the
issuance of a court order allocating rights between them. Thus, Petitioner
could seek relief under the Convention even in the absence of a prior
custody decree.

Respondent raises two affirmative defenses which he urges are applicable. First,
he contends that the mother consented to AGO remaining in the United States and
second he contends that AGO has reached an age of maturity that his objections to
being returned should be heeded.

As set forth above, Article 13(a) of the Convention permits a court to refuse to
order the return of children, despite a wrongful removal or retention, if
Respondent proves by a preponderance of the evidence that Petitioner "had
consented to or subsequently acquiesced in the removal or retention." Hague
Convention, art. 13(a). "The consent defense involves the petitioner's conduct
prior to the contested removal or retention, while acquiescence addresses whether
the petitioner subsequently agreed to or accepted the removal or retention."
Baxter v. Baxter, 423 F.3d 363, 371 (3d Cir.2005) (citations omitted). On this
defense, Respondent suggests that a number of events demonstrate consent on the
mother's part.FN15 In February 2007, the mother sent a message to the father
saying that she was done with AGO and that the father should come pick him up. In
response, Respondent traveled to Italy, bringing AGO back to the U.S. for
completion of the 2006-2007 school year. According to Respondent, following their
travels together as a family in summer 2007, Petitioner and Respondent met with
the Petitioner's brother, an Italian lawyer, to reach an agreement about certain
matters regarding child support and AGO's schooling with the ultimate decision
being that AGO would spend the 2007-2008 school year in Italy and that AGO would
then decide at that point whether he wanted to attend high school in Italy or the
United States. Such is denied by the Petitioner, but I am satisfied that a meeting
took place with the uncle in which this was discussed. However, no firm agreement
has been demonstrated such that the court can comfortably conclude from this that
Petitioner consented in the summer of 2007 to allowing her child alone to
determine where he would attend high school and thereby determine where he would
reside after the 2007-2008 school year.

FN15. Although Respondent's Proposed Findings and Conclusions (Doc. 30)
raise the defense of "consent," he argues the mother's conduct in 2007, as
well as her conduct subsequent to the alleged wrongful retention, and thus
the court addresses the argument as one based on consent and/or
acquiescence.

*12 Respondent also urges that when Petitioner returned to Italy following her
visit in September 2008, she left the country without AGO, but took his U.S.
passport, thereby evidencing her acquiescence in his remaining in the U.S. FN16
Additionally, Respondent argues that a text message sent by the Petitioner to AGO
in November 2008 stating "... you are done with me, you never treated me right and
not even your brothers. You make your choice, we will make ours ..." demonstrates
her acceptance of his decision to remain in the United States. While Petitioner
acknowledges sending the text, she adamantly denies consenting or acquiescing in
AGO's remaining in the U.S. Further, she testified that she was in repeated
contact with the authorities regarding obtaining his return, and she was actively
pursuing custody in the Italian court system at the time, all of which point to a
lack of consent or acquiescence on her part. The court agrees and finds that this
sequence of events is also insufficient to demonstrate that Petitioner consented
to or subsequently acquiesced in the child's retention, and thus that exception
would not apply in the instant matter to prevent return of the child to Italy.
This affirmative defense is not established.FN17

FN16. The child holds both a U.S. and an Italian passport and had traveled
to the U.S. in July on his Italian passport. The U.S. Passport was left with
the child along with an airline ticket in February 2009. I cannot conclude
that the circumstances reflect consent or acquiescence.

FN17. On the other hand, this statement by the mother does reflect that AGO
had firmly communicated to her his desire to stay in the U.S. with his
father.

Finally, while Respondent firmly contends that the U.S. is and has been AGO's
habitual residence, he nonetheless argues that even given a finding of Italy as
the habitual residence at the time of the wrongful retention, the court has
discretion to refuse to order the child to be returned to Italy where, as here,
"the child objects to being returned and has attained an age and degree of
maturity at which it is appropriate to take account of its views." Hague
Convention, Art. 13; 42 U.S.C. s 11603(e)(2)(B). If proven by a preponderance of
the evidence, this exception provides a separate and independent basis for a court
to refuse to return a child to the country of habitual residency. Blondin v.
Dubois, 238 F.3d 153, 166 (2d Cir.2001). However, like other exceptions, it is to
be narrowly applied. England, 234 F.3d at 272.

The Hague Convention does not set a specific age at which a child is automatically
considered to be sufficiently mature, and courts must make the determination on a
case-bycase basis. Yang, 499 F.3d at 279. Professor Elisa Perez-Vera, the official
Hague Convention reporter, authored an explanatory report that is recognized as
"the official history and commentary on the Convention and is a source of
background on the meaning of the provisions of the Convention available to all
States becoming parties to it." Hague International Child Abduction Convention:
Text and Legal Analysis, 51 Fed.Reg. 10,494-01 at 10,503 (Mar. 26, 1986).
Perez-Vera offers this insight into the child objection exception set forth in
Article 13:

[T]he Convention also provides that the child's views concerning the essential
question of its return or retention may be conclusive, provided it has,
according to competent authorities, attained an age and degree of maturity
sufficient for its views to be taken into account. In this way, the Convention
gives children the possibility of interpreting their own interests. Of course,
this provision could prove dangerous if it were applied by means of the direct
questioning of young people who admittedly have a clear grasp of the situation
but who may also suffer serious psychological harm if they think they are being
forced to choose between two parents. However, such a provision is absolutely
necessary given the fact the Convention applies, ratione personae, to all
children under the age of sixteen; the fact must be acknowledged that it would
be very difficult to accept that a child of, for example, fifteen years of age,
should be returned against its will.

*13 The Perez-Vera Report, Actes et documents de la Quatorzieme Session, 6 au
octobre 1980, Tome III, Enlevement d'enfants at 433, P 30, available at
http://hcch.evision.nl/upload/expl28.pdf. Several courts have interpreted this
language to acknowledge that "a court may refuse repatriation solely on the basis
of a considered objection to returning by a sufficiently mature child." See de
Silva v. Pitts, 481 F.3d 1279, 1286 (10th Cir.2007) (quoting Blondin, 238 F.3d at
166); see also Leites v. Mendiburu, No. 6:07-cv-2004-Orl-19DAB, 2008 WL 114954,
at *6 (M.D.Fla. Jan.9, 2008) (court exercised its discretion in denying petition
for return of a thirteen-year-old child who expressed affection for both parents
and acknowledged missing family and friends in Argentina but nevertheless gave
credible, independent reasons for her objection to being returned to Argentina and
court found the minor to be bright, mature, and articulate in her reasoning);
Laguna v. Avila, No. 07-CV5136 (ENV), 2008 WL 1986253, at *11 (E.D.N.Y. May 7,
2008) (finding thirteen-year-old child's objection to being returned to Columbia
to be the "product of independent reasoning and thoughtful consideration" and not
the product of his parents' influence, and determining the child of an age and
maturity that it was appropriate to take account of his views and "meets the
narrow exception created by the Hague Convention's unnumbered defense to
repatriation"); McManus v. McManus, 354 F.Supp.2d 62, 71 (D.Mass.2005) (court
concluded that fourteen-year-olds' objections to being returned to Ireland were
thoughtfully, and not reflexively, reached and ought to be honored). Indeed, the
"Convention clearly contemplates that the objections of a mature child should be
taken account of and can be relied on to override the return that would otherwise
be mandated." Id. at 72.

At the time of the hearing and the court's in camera interview of AGO, he was
fourteen years old and due to turn fifteen in less than three months. By his
parents' account, he is intelligent and does well in school. The court found him
to be bright and more than adequately articulate, brief but thoughtful in his
responses. Neither Petitioner nor Respondent dispute that he possesses appropriate
maturity for a person of his age, and the court found him to demonstrate a serious
understanding of the proceedings and that which he was being called upon to
address.FN18 He understood the oath and was permitted to testify. By his account,
he does not want to be returned to Italy and he wishes to remain in the U.S. I
credit his testimony that even before coming to the U.S. in July 2008, he had
determined he wished to stay here despite what he told his mother. He believes
there was an agreement that would permit him to choose where he would attend high
school and by his choice he wishes to continue at Brandon High School. There is no
reason presented to doubt the child's sincerity nor any doubt that he honestly
desires to stay in the U.S., while at the same time missing his family and friends
in Italy. Other objective evidence supports this conclusion. In September 2008 and
in February 2009, AGO had time alone with his mother to discuss his reasons for
wanting to live in the U.S. They often exchanged e-mails. There is no credible
evidence that the father sought to interfere with the discussions or
communications between the mother and child. The child accompanied his mother to
the airport on both occasions when she left and could have returned to Italy had
he desired to do so. He affirmatively chose to stay in the U.S. after telling his
mother why. As noted above, the mother's frustrated text message to the child in
November 2008 also suggests that the child was firm in his conviction not to
return to Italy.

FN18. As noted above, while not disputing his intelligence or maturity,
Petitioner argues that the passage of time and the father's undue influence
prohibits the court from taking into account the child's views. Petitioner
is correct that "[a] child's objection to being returned may be accorded
little if any weight if [for example] the court believes that the child's
preference is the product of the abductor parent's undue influence over the
child." Department of State, Hague International Child Abduction Convention,
text and Legal Analysis, Pub. Notice 957, 51 Fed.Reg. 10,494, 10,509 (1986).
I have carefully considered this contention.

*14 The Court is unpersuaded by Petitioner's reliance on Yang v. Tsui, 499 F.3d
259 (3d Cir.2007) wherein that court found the minor child was not of sufficient
age or maturity for her views to be considered.FN19 Although ten years of age when
interviewed by the court, the child was only six years old when wrongfully
detained and had been with the father only a few weeks before the wrongful
retention occurred. Here, AGO had lived with his father in Florida on multiple
occasions prior to the summer 2008, at times up to six months out of a year. He
had developed friendships and connections to Florida before returning in summer
2008. He had acquired a dog to which he was returning. When he returned in July
2008, he brought additional personal belongings, and it did not take him long to
acclimate to his life in the U.S. Thus, the court finds that AGO. has attained an
age and degree of maturity at which it is appropriate to take account of his
views, and he has clearly expressed his desire to remain in the United States and
objects to his return to Italy.

FN19. The court has also considered In re Robinson, 983 F.Supp. 1339
(D.Col.1997) and Giampaolo v. Erneta, 390 F.Supp.2d 1269 (N.D.Ga.), relied
upon by Petitioner, but finds those cases involving ten-year-old children
whose objections to return were either rejected or discounted due to a
finding of undue influence to be factually distinguishable from the instant
matter.

Undue influence by the Respondent is not demonstrated. While it would be naive to
assume that the child has not been influenced in many ways by his positive
relationship with his father during the past year, and the sometimes uncomfortable
relationship with his mother brought on by the circumstances, it is not
demonstrated that such affected his decision in August 2008 that he remain in the
U.S. for high school.

I conclude that the child's objections to returning to Italy are real and
heartfelt. As he sees it, life is better here and he is more comfortable in his
surroundings. This is not a choice of parents but as he sees it a choice of
country. Both parents appear loving and caring toward the child and both are
capable of doing so. While the court does not condone the unilateral actions of
the father in failing to assure the return of the child as agreed in August 2008,
I do believe that such was equally the desire of the child that he not be
returned. I am persuaded that the child's objection to being returned to Italy
should be accepted and the Petitioner's request for relief be denied.


IV.

Accordingly, it is recommended that Respondent's Motion to Dismiss for Lack of
Subject Matter Jurisdiction (Doc. 13) be DENIED and Petitioner's Motion for a
Temporary Restraining Order and Order to Show Cause Why a Preliminary Injunction
Should Not Be Entered Against Respondent and Incorporated Memorandum of Law
(Doc.
3) be DENIED.

Recommended in Tampa, Florida, this 10th day of July 2009.

M.D.Fla.,2009.

Ago v. Odu

Slip Copy, 2009 WL 2169857 (M.D.Fla.)

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