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Krefter v Willis, 623 F.Supp.2d 125 (D. Mass. 2009)

 

  

In Krefter v Willis, 623 F.Supp.2d 125 (D. Mass. 2009) Petitioner Marco Krefter sought return of his daughter. He asserted that Respondent, Pamela C. Wills, his former wife and mother of his child, C.K., now age eight, removed the child from Germany to the United States without his knowledge or consent and in contravention of his custody rights. Ms. Wills, who wass indigent, asserted that Mr. Krefter was not actually exercising his custody rights at the time of removal in October 2007, and due to Ms. Wills' dire financial situation and other factors, there was a grave risk that the return of the child would cause her physical or psychological harm or place her in an intolerable situation. The petition was granted subject to certain undertakings. Mr. Krefter, a German citizen, and Ms. Wills, an American citizen, first met in 1990. Six months later, Ms. Wills moved to Germany to be with Mr. Krefter, and in 1994, the two were married in a civil ceremony in Germany. The couple resided together in Germany, though they spent significant amounts of time in the United States. They maintained a residence (either owning or renting) in the States continuously from the late 1990s through 2005 and started two companies in Massachusetts, where Ms. Wills' family resided. In December 2000, C.K. was born. All three lived together in Hamburg, Germany. The family continued to visit the United States regularly, approximately three times per year. Ms. Wills spent the summers with C.K. on Cape Cod in Mashpee, Massachusetts, where Ms. Wills' family resided (with Mr. Krefter joining them for part of the summer vacation). From her arrival in Germany in 1991 through approximately 1997, Ms. Wills held jobs with the United States military and two separate companies in Germany. In 1997, Ms. Wills and Mr. Krefter started a paint distribution company in Mashpee, Massachusetts. Though Mr. Krefter retained control of the company, Ms. Wills and several of her family members constituted the company's work force. This company was followed by another in which Ms. Wills also played a role. Besides her roles in these two companies, and her occasional "support" of Mr. Krefter (a self-described international business consultant) in his work, Ms. Wills did not work outside the home after 1997. In August 2005, Ms. Wills and Mr. Krefter separated. Ms. Wills made the decision to leave Mr. Krefter. In August 2007, Ms. Wills learned that her earning potential was limited. In 2000, Ms. Wills had, at Mr. Krefter's urging for tax reasons, changed her residence to Mashpee, Massachusetts. Seven years later, when Ms. Wills went to renew her work permit with the German authorities, she discovered that, because she had not been listed as a German resident, she was now only eligible for a work permit with substantial restrictions. According to Ms. Wills, this severely limited her ability to work as a freelance teacher at the language agency.

According to Ms. Wills, after they separated in 2005, Mr. Krefter did provide her with some financial payments, but they varied dramatically in both the amount of the payments and their timing. In late 2006, Mr. Krefter and Ms. Wills agreed that he would pay 810 Euros per month in child support. With the exception of the month of March (when he paid only 250 Euros), Mr. Krefter fulfilled this agreement from January through June 2007. However, Mr. Krefter made no child support payments in July 2007, paid 120 Euros in August 2007, and paid only 250 Euros each month thereafter (through the time of hearing ). Ms. Wills constantly struggled to pay the bills. In June 2007, Ms. Wills traveled to the United States with C.K. for summer vacation with Ms. Wills' family on Cape Cod. Ms. Wills and C.K. returned from the Cape in mid-August that year. Ms. Wills' financial situation remained dire upon her return to Germany at the end of the summer in 2007. On October 5, 2007, Ms. Wills moved out of her German apartment and returned, with C.K., to her parents' home in Mashpee, Massachusetts. She did not give advance notice to Mr. Krefter, and he never gave consent for the removal. Two days later (October 7, 2007), Ms. Wills e-mailed Mr. Krefter informing him that she and C.K. had gone to Massachusetts because she was unable to cover even her and C.K.'s "most basic living expenses." Ms Wills explained that the lack of reliable child support from Mr. Krefter and her inability to qualify for financial support or an unrestricted work permit from the German government because of her residency status had forced her to leave. She never sought assistance from the German courts.

Mr. Krefter filed the petition with this court on October 2, 2008, nearly one year after C.K.'s departure from Germany. Mr. Krefter stated that he does not seek exclusive physical custody of C.K. Rather, he sought only that she return to Germany for custodial proceedings. Both parties agreed that Germany qualifiedas C.K.'s habitual residence under the Convention and that, under German law, Mr. Krefter and Ms. Wills jointly held custody rights to C.K. See Kufner, 519 F.3d at 39 ("Under German law, where parents are married at the birth of the child, they have joint custody over the child until the operation of law ... or a court order terminates joint custody."). Thus, with respect to the initial determination as to whether the removal was "wrongful," the sole issue was whether Mr. Krefter had proven that he was exercising or would have exercised his custody rights but for the removal.

The court noted that the Sixth Circuit concluded that only "acts that constitute clear and unequivocal abandonment of the child" can cause a person with valid custody rights to be deemed as having failed to "exercise" those rights under the Hague Convention. Friedrich II, 78 F.3d at 1066. Most American courts confronting a dispute involving the "actual exercise" prong have followed this approach outlined in Friedrich II.  Ms. Wills contends that, at the time she removed C.K. from Germany in October 2007, Mr. Krefter was not actually exercising his rights. She asserts that, following the explosive altercation at her apartment in June, Mr. Krefter unilaterally slashed his child support payments to 250 Euros and suspended his contact with C.K., actions which, in Ms. Wills' view, amount to "unexplainable neglect" and the non-exercise of custodial rights under the Convention. Friedrich II, 78 F.3d at 1066 ("[T]here may be situations when a long period of unexplainable neglect of the child could constitute non-exercise of otherwise valid custody rights...."). Mr. Krefter made no child support payments in July 2007, paid 120 Euros in August 2007, and paid only 250 Euros in September and October 2007. As for visits, after Mr. Krefter angrily left her apartment (without C.K.) on June 23, 2007, Mr. Krefter only saw C.K. once before Ms. Wills ultimately left Germany with C.K. in early October. On this occasion, Mr. Krefter did not arrange for a visit, but rather unexpectedly stopped C.K. on her way home from school one September afternoon. The Court held that the continued payment of some level of child support, coupled with Mr. Krefter's communication and visits with C.K. earlier in the year--vitiated any contention that Mr. Krefter clearly and unequivocally abandoned his custody rights. The Court found that Mr. Krefter demonstrated, by a preponderance of the evidence, that he was actually exercising his custody rights at the time of removal in October 2007. For the same reason, Ms. Wills had not established a defense under Article 13. Ms. Wills also contended that the Court should not order C.K.'s return to Germany because, if returned, C.K. would face a "grave risk" of harm or be placed in an intolerable situation. She contended that if she returned to Germany with C.K. to face a protracted custody proceeding, she would have no way to support herself and C.K., and they would end up homeless or living in an equally intolerable situation in Germany. The court held that the bar for proving the "grave risk" exception is set exceptionally high. Ms. Wills made no allegations that Mr. Krefter ever abused her or C.K.Instead, Ms. Wills contended that, because C.K. was "emotionally dependent" on Ms. Wills, has been enrolled in school in Mashpee since October 2007, and had "flourished" since she began living with her mother and grandparents in Mashpee, she would face certain psychological harm if forced to return to Germany.

Reinterating that the test for establishing a "grave risk of harm" defense is undeniably stringent the court concluded that Ms. Wills had not satisfied this exceedingly high standard. The court pointed out that Courts considering petitions for return under the Convention have the authority to impose conditions, known as undertakings, to ensure that a potential harm "does not manifest" when a child returns to his or her country of habitual residence. Kufner, 480 F.Supp.2d at 515 n. 34 ("[W]here the potential for harm is real, even if it does not meet the Article 13(b) definition, [a court] ... has an obligation to attempt to ensure that it does not manifest."), aff'd, 519 F.3d 33, 41 (upholding conditions imposed by district court on child's return ); see also Feder v. Evans-Feder, 63 F.3d 217, 226 (3d Cir.1995) (instructing a district court that, in the event it concludes that a mother's Article 13(b) defense falls short but that "an unqualified return order would be detrimental" to the child, "the court should investigate the adequacy of undertakings ... to ensure that [the child] does not suffer shortterm harm"). Undertakings are "a type of safeguard that courts may impose in order to help ensure that a potential risk of harm does not materialize." Kufner, 480 F.Supp.2d at 513; see Danaipour, 286 F.3d at 21 ("Undertakings can be an important tool for courts to comply with the Convention's strong presumption of a safe and speedy return of a wrongfully removed child."); Walsh, 221 F.3d at 219. The court held that a A prolonged separation from Ms. Wills would be very detrimental to C.K. It found there was a grave risk that Mr. Krefter would not provide reasonable financial resources to Ms. Wills upon her return to Germany. To ensure that C.K. and her mother do not live in intolerable financial conditions in Germany until the German court has the opportunity to resolve this acrimonious situation, the Court required, as conditions for her return, that Mr. Krefter pay for airplane tickets for C.K. and Ms. Wills to return to Germany, procure and pay for housing for Ms. Wills and C.K. in advance of their departure, and pay three months of child support at the mutually agreed upon amount of 810 Euros before their departure. Both parents shall use reasonable efforts to schedule court proceedings forthwith in Germany so as to require minimal disruption to C.K.'s schooling.

 

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