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Haimdas v Haimdas, --- F.Supp.2d ----, 2010 WL 2342377 (E.D.N.Y.)

 

In Haimdas v Haimdas, --- F.Supp.2d ----, 2010 WL 2342377 (E.D.N.Y.) Petitioner Felicia Haimdas, a British citizen, petitioned for the return of her two sons to England The boys--S.H., age 10, and A.H., age 12 were been retained in the United States by their father, respondent Jagmohan Haimdas, a Guyana-born naturalized United States citizen, without petitioner's consent since August 26, 2008.  The petition was filed on May 13, 2009. On February 23, 24 and 25 and March 2, 2010, the Court conducted a bench trial. As authorized by Rule 43(a) of the Federal Rules of Civil Procedure, petitioner, who had been unable to obtain a visa to travel to this country, testified via a live video link from London, England. Respondent and Dr. Glen D. Skoler, a psychologist retained by petitioner as an expert witness, testified in open court. The Court interviewed the children in camera on the record but outside the presence of the parties and their respective counsel. (Noting that this procedure was consistent with those adopted by district courts in Hague Convention cases. See, e.g., Matovski v. Matovski, No. 06 Civ. 4259, 2007 WL 2600862, at *1 & n.2 (S.D.N.Y. Aug. 31, 2007); Koc v. Koc, 181 F.Supp.2d 136, 144 & n.10 (E.D .N.Y.2001)).

Petitioner and respondent were married in London on December 21, 1996. Within two weeks of their wedding, on January 24, 1997, petitioner and respondent came to the United States together and moved into their extended family's house in Queens, although petitioner had only a tourist visa. In June 1997, the first of their two sons, A.H., was born in the United States. As the child of a citizen of the United Kingdom, A.H. became a dual citizen of both countries upon his birth, and retains that status today. Approximately two years later their second son, S.H., was born. Like A.H., S.H. was a dual citizen of the United States and the United Kingdom. The relationship deteriorated further and in September 2001, petitioner decided, with respondent's blessing, to take the children to England by herself and raise them there indefinitely. Petitioner took as many belongings as she could fit into five suitcases, and flew to England with the boys on one-way tickets purchased by respondent. Upon arrival, they moved in with petitioner's mother in Croydon, an outer borough of London. A.H. started nursery school in England in October 2001, while S.H., still an infant, stayed home with his mother. They lived in England without interruption for the next seven months. On April 12, 2002, petitioner and the children flew to New York for what petitioner intended to be a two-week visit. Upon landing at John F. Kennedy International Airport in Queens, petitioner was denied  entry into the United States because she had previously overstayed her tourist visa by four years, and was forced to reboard a plane back to England by herself.
Her children and brother, however, cleared Immigration and Customs and entered the arrivals terminal, where respondent was waiting to pick them. Before petitioner flew back to England, she had an opportunity to speak to respondent for a few minutes at the airport, and told him "to send the children home after two weeks with [her] brother." Notwithstanding the conversation, when the time came to use the round-trip tickets he had purchased for them, respondent refused to send the children back as scheduled. For the next three years, over petitioner's objections and entreaties, the boys lived with respondent in New York.

Although he refused to allow their children to go back to England and live with petitioner during this period, respondent did not wholly block her from seeing them, with certain conditions and limitations.

In the summer of 2005, A.H and S.H., then eight and five years old, respectively, returned to England and remained there for the next three years. During this period, they lived with petitioner in an apartment close to her mother's home in Croydon and attended British schools. Petitioner took care of the children's overall well-being, providing them with clothes, food, shelter, medical and other living expenses and overseeing their education.. The facts surrounding this turn of events were the subject of some dispute.


The petitioner contended that the children were habitual residents of England, while respondent asserted that the "[t]he children were habitually resident in New York since their birth."

During the period between January 1997 and September 2001, petitioner and respondent lived together as husband and wife in New York, and petitioner bore their two sons here. Though born on American soil, both children were at birth, and still are today, dual citizens of England and the United States. Petitioner testified undisputedly at trial that, in September 2001, she gathered essentially all of her worldly possessions and moved to England with both children in tow, intending to raise them there indefinitely as a single parent. Petitioner further testified that: (1) she decided to move after respondent kicked her and the children out of their home in Queens; (2) respondent bought one-way tickets to London for the three of them; (3) in fall 2001, petitioner enrolled the school-age older child in nursery school in England; and (4) petitioner lived with both children in England for the next seven months. These uncontroverted facts
illustrated that, in September 2001, petitioner and respondent mutually intended both children to abandon life in the United States and acquire a new habitual residence in England, the agreed-upon geographical change actually occurred and the children subsequently stayed in England long enough to become acclimatized.
Thus, the Court found A.H. and S.H. were habitual residents of England as of April 12, 2002, when petitioner flew to the United States with both children for a short visit and, in a peculiarly unpleasant incident, was separated from them against her will by border officials at the airport and forced to fly back to England alone.

Respondent received the children at the airport in New York that day and refused to consent to their return to petitioner's care in England for the following three years. During this time, the Court found no credible support for the conclusion that petitioner and respondent agreed that the boys' habitual residence should revert to the United States; rather, petitioner periodically reminded respondent that she believed it best for the children to live with her in England. Further, the Court found no evidence in the record "unequivocally pointing] to the conclusion" that either child became so utterly acclimatized to the United States between 2002 and 2005 that his habitual residence shifted regardless of the lack of parental consensus. Gitter, 396 F.3d at 134. Boys subsequently proved capable of readjusting to life overseas with petitioner without serious incident. Accordingly, throughout this prolonged stay in the United States, A.H. and S.H. remained "habitual residents" of England for Hague Convention purposes.

Even assuming arguendo that the children's habitual residence did shift back to the United States after April 2002, any such change was mooted by subsequent events. In fall 2005, both boys entered school in England and attended
classes there continuously until respondent's retention of them in the United States in August 2008 prevented it. On these facts, the Court found that, as a result of their parents' shared intent, the children returned to England--the
place of their "habitual residence"--for a second time in the summer of 2005, and lived their lives there with a high degree of settled purpose for the next three years. In other words, even if their habitual residence had reverted to the United States earlier, it shifted back to England then. Even though the children were now living in the United States with respondent, and have been since late summer 2008, respondent unreservedly acknowledged that petitioner never consented or acquiesced to this arrangement. Further, there was no evidence that, since leaving England in July 2008, either child had become so acclimatized to the United States that compelling return to England "can be expected" to result in "serious harm to the child," Gitter, 396 F.3d at 134, or would "be tantamount to taking the child out of the
family and social environment in which [his] life has developed. Ultimately, the Court could not conclude that, at present, their acclimatization to the United States was sufficient to outweigh their parents' last shared intent. The court found the most recent point in time where petitioner and respondent mutually agreed upon their children's habitual residence was in the summer of 2005, when they both agreed to reaffirm England as that geographic location. That decision was totally in harmony with the prior formed and executed shared intent in September 2001, when the marriage fell apart and petitioner and the children moved to England with respondent's cooperation.

Petitioner asserted that she has "rights of custody" by "operation of" English law--specifically, the United Kingdom Children Act of 1989 (the "Children Act"), the statute which establishes "all the law relating to the care and upbringing of children" in that country. Although the Children Act does not employ the word "custody" as a legal term of art, it provides in relevant part that: "[w]here a child's father and mother were married to each other at the time of his birth, they shall each have parental responsibility for the child," which is defined as "all the rights, duties, powers, responsibilities and authority which by law a parent of a child has in relation to the child and his property." Children Act §§2(1), 3(1) (emphasis added). More than one person may have parental responsibility for the same child at the same time . "A
plain reading of the definition of 'parental responsibility' in the Children Act and the definition of 'rights of custody' in the Hague Convention leads to the conclusion that the former includes the latter. Accordingly, American courts have interpreted Section 2 of the Children Act as sufficient proof of de jure rights of custody for a Hague Convention prima facie showing of wrongful retention or removal, at least where no English court order negating the petitioner's parental responsibility is in effect.

English court orders were issued to protect petitioner's ability to exercise her rights to "care" for the children. The Prohibited Steps Order prohibited respondent from "removing the children from the care of [petitioner] or from the care of any person to whom she has entrusted such care" without her consent, and required respondent to "return the children to the [petitioner] promptly at the expiry of any agreed contact" ; the succeeding Contact Order specifically provided for the continuation of these provisions. Respondent's sustained refusal to return his sons to petitioner's care following August 25, 2008, the scheduled end date of the short visit for which petitioner had agreed to release them, plainly violated these specific judicial directives. The Court found that respondent's actions are "in breach of rights of custody attributed to [petitioner] under the law of the State in which the children] [were] habitually resident immediately before the ... retention," namely, the United Kingdom. Hague Convention, art. 3(a).

The Court noted that the English Child Abduction Act 1984 ("Abduction Act") provides that it is a criminal offense for a parent to take a child out of the United Kingdom for more than one month without the consent of the other parent, absent a court order in favor of the first parent. (See Abduction Act, ch. 37, 1). In other words, English law vests each parent of a child with a "ne exeat right: the authority to consent before the other parent may take the child to another country." Abbott, 2010 WL 1946730, at *3. In addition, the Supreme Court recently held that a "ne exeat right is a right of custody under the [Hague] Convention," reasoning that a parent's "joint right to decide [a child's] country of residence
allows [the parent] to 'determine the child's place of residence' .... [and] also gives [the parent] 'rights relating to the care of the person of the child.' "

Petitioner also held a ne exeat right pursuant to both operation of English law and specific court order. Since August 25, 2008, respondent breached this "right of custody" by retaining the children outside of England both without petitioner's consent and without ever seeking or obtaining authorization from the appropriate English court.


Prior to trial, the parties stipulated that: "[during the time when the Children lived with Petitioner in England, Petitioner took care of their overall well-being, providing them with clothes, food, shelter, medical and other living
expenses." . This was borne out by petitioner's testimony. Since July 25, 2008, A.H. and S.H. have been situated an ocean away from petitioner in the United States, a country that she is legally barred from entering; petitioner obviously has not been taking "care of their overall well-being" during this time. Notwithstanding, the Court found it reasonable to conclude that, but for respondent's unilateral retention of the children in the United States past the scheduled end of their month-long visit, petitioner would have resumed taking "care of their overall well-being" in England. Similarly, the Court finds that petitioner would have exercised her ne exeat right but for the retention; she declined to consent to the boys' staying out of England for longer than one month, but she had no way to enforce that condition once they were physically present in the United States. In sum, petitioner satisfied her burden of establishing a prima facie case of wrongful retention under the Convention.


Respondent's defense to petitioner's prima facie case for return was premised exclusively on an unnumbered sentence in article 13 of the Convention often dubbed the "age and maturity defense" or the "mature child exception," which provides that a court "may ... refuse to order the return of the child if it finds that the child objects to
being returned and has attained an age and degree of maturity at which it is appropriate to take account of its views." Hague Convention, art. 13. Respondent had the burden of proving the applicability of the age and maturity defense by a preponderance of the evidence. (See 42 U.S.C. 11603(e)(2)(B). The Court noted that the fact that a sufficiently mature child objects to repatriation "may be conclusive"; in other words, a district court can decline to order return of a wrongfully retained or removed child on that ground alone. (Citing Blondin II, 238 F.3d at 166). However, it bears emphasis that the Convention merely calls for a court to "take account of" a mature child's objection to return, not to accede to it automatically. Further, a court always retains discretion to order repatriation notwithstanding the applicability of any Hague Convention exception if that would best fulfill the purposes of the Convention; the discretionary aspect is particularly important with respect to the mature child exception because of the potential for undue influence by the person who allegedly wrongfully retained the child. Such undue influence is not always
calculated or intended by the custodial parent. A lengthy wrongful retention could enable the child to become comfortable in his or her new surroundings, which may create a desire to remain in his or her new home. However, a finding of undue influence is not a prerequisite to a decision not to apply the mature child exception.

Whether a child is mature enough to have its views considered is a factual finding that a district court must make in light of the specific circumstances of each case. There are no established objective criteria or tests for assessing
"maturity" in the context of the mature child exception, although the Second Circuit has observed as a general matter that the standard should be a relatively demanding one. (Citing Blondin II, 238 F.3d at 166 holding that a court may consider any testimony of a child that is "germane" to a broader analysis of whether a grave risk of harm exists upon repatriation, and noting "it stands to reason that the standard for considering a child's testimony as one part of a broader analysis ... would not be as strict as the standard for relying solely on a child's objections to deny repatriation under Article 13"). While the testimony of psychological experts is frequently proffered in this context, few cases address the weight to be accorded to a psychologist's testimony in a Hague Convention case. A handful of courts have rejected such testimony wholesale, finding it to be "appropriate in a custody proceeding, not in a Hague Convention
case.. Others, however, have relied heavily on psychologists' testimony when deciding whether to apply the mature child exception.

Significantly, courts distinguish between a child's "objection" to return, as referenced in the Hague Convention, "and a child's wishes, as expressed in a custody case.... [T]he notion of 'objections' ... is far stronger and more
restrictive than that of 'wishes' in a custody case.. A child's expression of a preference to remain in the United States rather than a particularized objection to repatriation may provide a basis for a court to find the mature child exception inapplicable.


The Court found that respondent had not proved by a preponderance of the evidence that S.H., who was interviewed in camera approximately two months shy of his tenth birthday, was sufficiently mature for the Court to take his views into
account. The Court gave no weight to Dr. Skoler's testimony and report in assessing either child's maturity level, or in determining any other matter in controversy. S.H. expressed a strong--indeed, unequivocal--desire to remain in New York rather than return to England. His main objections to England itself appeared to be his aversion to the climate (which is always rainy and cold, and never summer) and his staunch belief that England offers inferior athletic opportunities (because the sport of cricket is never played there) and educational opportunities (because there are no science, social studies or gym classes taught in English schools). Primarily, however, S.H. explained his objection to return by drawing an intensely unfavorable comparison between what life is like now with his father and what he now recalls life was like before with his mother, who he last saw when he was eight years old. Despite the fact that, as the Court found respondent did not intentionally plant words in S.H.'s mouth, the child's view of his mother has clearly been impacted by his physical separation from her for much of his life and the strained and often bitter relationship between his parents. All in all, the Court found that S.H. was an intelligent, well-mannered and congenial child, but hardly sufficiently mature for the Court to take his views into account in deciding whether or not to order return to his country of habitual residence. The Court found A.H. him to be a remarkably intelligent, well-spoken and mature 12-year old. Even to the extent that it is appropriate to take A.H.'s views into account, they did not foreclose his return to England. A.H., like his little brother, bemoaned the weather and the availability of interesting sports activity
in England and ticked off a laundry list of reasons why he likes living with his father more than his mother. However, the message that A.H. conveyed most coherently and emphatically was that, above all, he did not want to be separated
from S.H. Indeed, A.H. openly admitted that he definitively decided that he did not want to return to England once S.H. informed him that he wanted to stay in New York. A.H. told the Court: "I don't want to be split from my brother. I said that's what I think too. That is what I thought too." The Court found A.H.'s commitment to staying with his brother to be the most compelling testament possible to A.H.'s maturity. Although he has expressed a preference to remain in the United States now, this preference will evaporate if S.H. returns to England. A.H., in other words, has expressed a sincere preference to remain in the United States, but certainly not an unequivocal objection to his return to the United Kingdom. Thus, A.H.'s viewpoint, as mature as it is, cannot be an adequate basis for this Court to"disregard the narrowness of the age and maturity exception to the Convention's rule of mandatory return.


  

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